You know who you are in Christ by now.
We have ever tried to share The Love of God with unbelievers who are Loved ones close to us. And often we hoped that they were not unbelievers at heart.
But it seems many are somewhat righteous people with no desire whatsoever of seeking God. They have no motivation to know Our Heavenly Father or to find the greatest spiritual gifts in life given by The Holy Spirit in The Name of Jesus.
(The YT EYA video below is not for the faint of heart. Its a paradigm changer.)